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Why is it so hard to date nowadays?

14.06.2025 08:47

Why is it so hard to date nowadays?

I either grew out of or was never really down with the tye of women I grew up around. These women are still around but it’s much more of the basic type around. That kinda lowers my interest.

I’m around women who aren’t my type most the time

My life is work and I’m broke

Can cheating be a result of not truly loving or caring for someone, or is it sometimes just a spur of the moment decision?

Again, this is not a big problem for me, but it is a little annoying. Even women at work who are into me had this tension against me sometimes when the subject of “men” and neo feminism are brought up.

Right now, I’m waiting for it to pass. Supposedly there is a 2 year mark. I reached that mark in February. I feel better than I did prior, but I still have issues. Until this fatigue and chest stuff goes away, I’m out of the game.

Buddha and Yoga.

Why do doctors refuse HRT to menopausal women but hand them out to trans people?

I am aware I can make time. I am aware I can still do what I am currently doing while dating, but the effort on my part is more than I can bear for a moment.

I can only speak for myself and no one else.

Women are getting the wrong impression of men from other women on social media. It’s creating a wall so if a guy who’s less on the confident side ever thinks about shooting his shot, he might not take it. I had a coworker who was cool, a very cool guy, but he was gay. One day, he told me that a coworker didn’t like him and he really asked me about women, like legit, he wanted to understand them. That showed me that bro probably just identified as gay because he just didn’t get these new age women at all. He might’ve been bi if he did, or maybe even straight. Point is all this Tiktok and Disney anti-men BS is having a very real impact on these young women.

Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?

NUMBER 1: Health problems since Covid

Weave and leggings.

Covid did something weird to my chest. I get annoying fatigue, random episodes of palpitations, and I also can’t be as physical as I once was back in 2021. I can no longer watch porn because my heart will palpitate, I can no longer have sex because of palpitations, shortness of breath, and fatigue. My long covid keeps improving and retracting. The better it gets, the worse the blowback.

Why does it smell so bad? I noticed that when I move around my vagina has a stench. It’s usually a wet liquid, almost like pee. There’re little to no discharge and it doesn’t hurt or itch.

NUMBER 3: Social Divide

Anyways, not wanting to spend money stopped me from going out places. So I spend all of my time working and also working on personal projects for more income.

I’m not into all that. I find myself more attracted to rustic or foreign women. I live in the tristate, so all I have are essentially urban women around. In college, I clicked more with women from Nigeria, Korea, the Phillipines, Alaska, and the countryside a lot.

How do I cope with the fact that I will never have a girlfriend?

Rent used to be around $1900 and $2400 where I live. Now the average is around $3100 - $4000. These landlords don’t want to work in this post covid society so they jack up the rent to basically make tenants pay their morgage and add a little extra shopping money on the side. I’m better off with a house so I’m saving for one.

NUMBER 2: We live in crappy times

Drinking and parties.

Is it true that most women like alpha males?

These reasons I’m giving are not excuses, they are also not “one at a time.” These are all factors that come into play all at the same time, which is why I personally find it hard to date.

Thrill seeking adventures like sky diving.

The zodiac signs.

What if you were the only and last person left on Earth. How will you survive and what would you do with your life?

Etc.

So in conclusion

I think 3 million Americans have this problem too, which is why I partly believe that dating is low right now. A lot of it are health issues. These untested vaccines (which i did not take but others did) and this dang disease.

Why is the internet so restrictive? Why is it impossible to find a place where you can express yourself fully?

Just comment.

NUMBER 4: I’m just not that interested in basic American women anymore

Everything is expensive now! It’s weird!

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The prideful personas.

Covid destroyed my health

I gotta be too careful with what I say, but being a realist is my personality

What baseball stories from the early days of the sport seem too bizarre to be true?

Drugs.

This isn’t that big a deal but it got on my nerves in real life a few times. This whole social media stuff changed the way a lot of females 18–35 think. It creates unnecessary dialogue and also it leaves an impression on the youth. Like, I was talking to a woman about something and she lifted her finger and “corrected me” by saying something super woke. I think i was giving and example and she said, “Him or HER” or some gender identity thing like that. I faced that a few times. Like I said, it isn’t big but it’s a factor.

Staying out late.

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May this thing go away this year by GOD’s grace.

I clicked with churchy women and muslim women from Asia.

That’s why it’s hard for me to date right now. that’s probably true for some others. Maybe, maybe not.

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This messes with dating BIG TIME.